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Basics of Meditation
    Meditation is a focusing of the mind on a
    single object, creating the cessation of all
    thought. As thoughts dissipate, the mind
    becomes quiet, and we are able to be fully in
    the present moment. The techniques of
    meditation are simple and easy to learn, but
    the ability to keep the mind focused takes
    time, patience and practice. The benefits of
    a regular meditation practice include
    reduction of stress, tension, anxiety and
    frustration, as well as improved memory,
    concentration, inner peace and whole body
    well-being.

    "The most basic form of meditation involves
    attending to one's breath and posture."

Begin by sitting in a simple chair, keeping your back erect if you
can. The more traditional postures are the lotus position, sitting on
a pillow with each foot upon the opposite thigh, and variations such
as the half lotus (one foot on the opposite thigh, the other out in
front of the opposite knee). This is difficult for many people. Some
people kneel, sitting back on their legs or on a pillow between their
legs. Many use a meditation bench: kneel, then place a little bench
beneath your behind. But meditation is also done while standing,
slowly walking, lying on the floor, or even in a recliner!

    Traditionally, the hands are placed loosely,
    palms up, one on top of the other, and with the
    thumbs lightly touching. This is called the
    cosmic mudra, one of a large number of symbolic
    hand positions. You may prefer to lay them flat
    on your thighs, or any other way that you find
    comfortable.  I typically have my hands as shown
    on the image to the left.  Palm up, with the
    thumb and the pointer finger touching while the
    other three fingers are next to each other -
    straight and pointing outward.

Your head should be upright, but not rigid. The eyes may be closed,
or focused on a spot on the ground a couple of feet ahead of you, or
looking down at your hands.   Keep your eyes looking upwards - at
about a 45 degree angle. If you find yourself getting sleepy, keep
your eyes open -- but don't focus on something far away, this will
make it harder for you to remove the awareness from the mind.

Beginning meditators are often asked to count their breath, on the
exhale, up to ten (or whatever number feels naturally to you. Then
you begin back at one. If you loose track, simply go back to one.
Your breath should be slow and regular, but not forced or
artificially controlled. Just breathe naturally and count.

The recommendation - which may be different from what you may have
heard before is to breathe in and out from your nose.  In your mouth,
keep your tongue pressed against the top part of your mouth and keep
it as back as you can (but so that it feels comfortable).

Meditators, at times, also use aromatherapy to enhance their
meditative state,  Items like certain oils and fragrances or burning
certain incense or herbs do assist many with their meditations.

A few weeks later, you may forego the counting and try to simply
follow your breath. Concentrate on it entering you and exiting you.
Best is to be aware as fully as possible of the entire process of
breathing, but most people focus on one aspect or another: the
sensation of coolness followed by warmth at the nostrils, or the rise
and fall of the diaphragm. Many meditators suggest imagining the air
entering and exiting a small hole an inch or two below your navel.
Keeping your mind lower on the body tends to lead to deeper
meditation. If you are sleepy, then focus higher, such as at the
nostrils.

You will inevitably find yourself distracted by sounds around you and
thoughts within. The way to handle them is to acknowledge them, but
do not attach yourself to them. Do not get involved with them. Just
let them be, let them go, and focus again on the breath. At first, it
might be wise to scratch when you itch and wiggle when you get
uncomfortable. Later, you will find that the same scant attention
that you use for thoughts and sounds will work with physical feelings
as well.

IMPORTANT NOTES:

Many people have a hard time with their thoughts. We are so used to
our hyperactive minds, that we barely notice the fact that they are
usually roaring with activity. So, when we first sit and meditate, we
are caught off guard by all the activity. So some people need to use
a little imagination to help them meditate. For example, instead of
counting or following your breath, you might prefer to imagine a
peaceful scene, perhaps floating in a warm lagoon, until the noise of
your mind quiets down.

Meditate for fifteen minutes a day, perhaps early in the morning
before the rest of the house wakes up, or late at night when
everything has quieted down. If that's too much, do it once a week if
you like. If you want, do more. Don't get frustrated. And don't get
competitive, either. Don't start looking forward to some grand
explosion of enlightenment. If you have great thoughts, fine. Write
them down, if you like. Then go back to breathing. If you feel
powerful emotions, wonderful. Then go back to breathing. The
breathing is enlightenment.
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